A Guide to Getting Your Girl to do a threesome

How To Talk to Her

Today’s culture is not the same as it was 30 years ago. Sexuality is much more open and expectations of what you will do in a relationship in bed can be startling to even the most sexually experienced person. It may come as a shock but in some relationships the question will come up “would you want to do a threesome?” Generally speaking it’s the male asking the female. In most cases it is a hypothetical question like “what would you do if there was only one hamburger left on a deserted island and four people?” There are some cases however where your partner may be genuinely interested on how you feel about this and would like to explore it further. In this case how would you go about having a threesome without it affecting your relationship? Is there any cases where it may make the relationship better?
Generally speaking it’s the male asking the female. In most cases it is a hypothetical question like “what would you do if there was only one hamburger left on a deserted island and four people?” There are some cases however where your partner may be genuinely interested on how you feel about this and would like to explore it further. In this case how would you go about having a threesome without it affecting your relationship? Is there any cases where it may make the relationship better?
No two couples are alike. Everyone acts differently with each other. Someone could be a total jerk to their ex-girlfriend and treat the next like a princess. It is all in the dynamic between you. If your boyfriend asks you if you want to have a threesome and you are considering it, you are going to want to lay down some ground rules so nobody comes out of it feeling neglected and jealous. First off the process of picking a third-party for this process can be more difficult than you would think. In fantasyland the third partner looks like a playboy model, is outgoing, understands to leave afterwards, and is respectful of your relationship. In reality though it can be hard to find somebody who wants to be the third-party in a threesome who is just doing it for the experience. The only way this can work out is if you find the girl together.
You cannot pick any of your friends or your boyfriend’s ex-girlfriend’s. This will just lead to jealousy afterwards and unnecessary drama. Both you and your boyfriend have to enter this adventure together from beginning to end and do it all together to present a united front to the third-party. Plan a night to go out together. The two of you ideally would begin conversations with single females but it is important that The two females bond first. This establishes respect between the females and dominance. Make sure your man leaves plenty of times for you to get to know each other.
Talk to your intended target for awhile before breaching the subject matter at hand. You will get a vibe when it’s the right girl. It may take weeks or months until you find “the one.” Don’t settle, this is a special gift from you to your boyfriend and it needs to be the right girl. When the timing is right and after many drinks you can bring it up to her in a respectful way and tell her what you’re looking for. Saying something like “ We both think you are really great, and we are interested in trying something we have never done before, would you like to come over tonight no pressure or anything just see how it goes?” How you bring it up is up to you as if you got to this point in the process where you have the confidence to approach another female about having a threesome with you then you will probably come up with the perfect thing to say. Stick to your promise of it being a no pressure time. You may have to hang out with her a couple times for her to feel comfortable.

Make sure you tell the girl that it is a one time thing and it is up to you and her if you want to remain in contact afterwards but under no circumstances is she to contact your boyfriend. For this to work all communication must be done between the females. If you are going to allow a threesome you were going to have to except that a Nother woman is going to be touching your boyfriend in places only you used to. If you can’t accept this in anyway and are not comfortable with it then you should politely decline his discussions of it. If you are a curious woman who can enjoy this for what it is, a sexual experience where you are being the coolest girlfriend ever then it may just make your relationship stronger. It will show your boyfriend that you are willing to go the extra mile to make him happy.

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